September 8

Stop! Celebrate! Remember: You rock!

Stopping? Celebrating? To get results we need to carry on! Nonsense! The power of rituals is underestimated these days. You know,  I´m celebrating 5 years in business! AND I don't want to underestimate this milestone. So I decided to create my very own ritual. It was centered on one single word: appreciation. Why is this relevant for you NOW? When was the last time that you gave yourself some genuine appreciation for your work? Cannot remember? Well, you are not alone. We tend to be more self critical than self loving. SO: NOW it's a very good time to Stop! Celebrate! Remember: You Rock! Step 1. Stop! Let go of your to-do list, appointments, telephone calls, emails.... Take some time for yourself and think it as a great investment and gift for yourself. Step 2. Take a big piece of paper, the largest you can find. (BTW don't do this in your computer! We want to connect directly with your heart chakra. Your heart chakra likes to work with your hands.) Create a matrix. The columns will be the years that you'll be celebrating. The rows will be the areas in your life that you'll be looking at. I've been working in these 3 areas for the past 5 years,
  • Intimacy. This is about personal intimate relationships: spouse, parents, children, intimate friends...
  • Personal Mastery. This is about the inner journey of becoming who we are. Here I include activities like artistic expression, healing, journaling, meditating...
  • Bliss Work. This is about the outer journey of becoming who we are. Here I include business decisions and activities, such as, claiming your ideal customer, raising your price, bringing your message out, taking a challenging business project...
Of course, the depth and expansion of each area will change per year, but the general view on it will remain the same. Of course, it's possible that these 3 areas of life could be different for you, like achievement, compassion, financial independence... My recommendation is that they are always 3. Simply because it'll allow you the blessing of focus. Step 3. Fill it in! You'll write in each one of the cells 2 kinds of information
  • Your successes. Those achievements that make you so proud of your own powers, your kindness, your intelligence, your vision, your persistence...
  • Your gifts. Those blessons (blessings + lessons) that you were granted. Those challenging events that came to give you a great life lesson. You know? These ones are also achievements! Yes, because you allowed them to happen. They gave you the contrast needed to step up into the next size of shoes you should wear.
Step 4. Read it. Look at it. Be with it. Internalize it. Embrace it. This is who you are. All these made you arrive here. All these are the building blocks that will catapult you to the next chapter of your life. Breath them. Appreciate them. Read you. Look at you. Be with you. Internalize yourself. Embrace yourself. This is who you are. All these made you arrive here. All these are the building blocks that are catapulting you to the next chapter of your life. Breath yourself. Appreciate yourself. Step 5.  Next steps! Ah! That will come with the next post! For now enjoy Step 4, with a glass of champagne, a piece of cake or simply a good intake of Prana. Remember: YOU Rock! Relevant Post How did you get here? Letting each day go by The toughest spiritual boot camp ever Relevant Links Photo by PSD

Tags

celebrate, remember, stop


You may also like

Imperative Antidotes to Deescalate Violence and Co-create A Better Future

Violence escalates and a better future for humanity becomes illusive. Are we helpless? How do we respond to the huge global suffering? How to change the values that currently govern the world? How to offer a higher vision of our presence and role on this planet? Anne Baring explores these  profound questions that touch all of us. She leaves

Read More

Afraid of your big mission? This is for you

During the summer I’ve been running a course on life planning.  One participant asked something that moved me deeply. She says:”That I know extremely well what I want for the future and that I’m working towards it for a long time now. That scares the sh*t out of me. And I don’t know why; of

Read More

Are you ready to drop the struggle and
unleash your radiance and impact?

But, not sure how?